my scheduled c-section birth story

i recorded this birth story almost a year ago, right after my baby girl was born. as cliche as it sounds, it's incredibly hard for me to believe that a year has already passed since her birth. i wanted to share this story on my blog for anyone who finds themselves in my situation – your baby is breech and for whatever reason, either she won't turn or your doctor advises you against an attempt to manually turn your baby, you end up having a c-section. i realize that so many people have negative experiences with c-sections, and i think it's because the majority of those cases are emergency, after the poor mother has labored intensely for hours and is disappointed with the news that after all that effort, the baby has to come via c-section. for me that wasn't the case, and i was lucky to have an extremely positive experience with my daughter's c-section birth. 

i abbreviated this version a little because the original was 3,662 words! i know, you'd be here until next week. there's also a youtube video at the end of this post with the beautiful birth story photos taken by christine olson photography.

if you have a friend who's preparing for a c-section, please feel free to share this with her. or pin it for later in case someone you know encounters this scenario. i knew for a couple weeks i'd likely have a c-section and after searching the internet, i had a hard time finding any helpful detailed accounts of positive c-section birth stories. plenty of beautifully detailed vaginal birth stories, yes, but not c-section births. 

i had several people tell me, before and after anabelle's birth, “oh i'm so sorry you had a c-section,” and even things like “i'm sorry you didn't get to experience real birth.” i felt disappointed, afraid, and like i was cheating or doing something wrong. i'm here to say that no matter what way you bring a child into the world, it's a miracle. birth is a miracle. 

Anabelle's birth story: a stream-of-consciousness style journal entry of the best day of my life.

The night before she came, we were up late. Neil was finally packing his hospital bag. Mine of course had been packed for a couple of weeks ha ha. I took one last shower with my big huge belly and we got to bed at about midnight, knowing that we'd need to get up around 5 a.m. I think I slept for maybe 3 hours, which was more than I expected to sleep. I woke up at 4:45 and was like a little kid on Christmas morning. I was SO excited to meet my baby girl that it was impossible for me to even consider going back to sleep. So, I got up out of bed and got ready for one of the biggest and most important days of my life. I took one last belly shot on instagram and at 5:45 a.m. before Neil and I headed to the hospital to get all checked in and ready for my 7:30 a.m. scheduled c-section.

We drove over to the hospital listening to Taylor Swift's new CD “Red.” It came out the week before Anabelle was born and I bought it on Saturday when I was at Target buying all the last minute little things I thought we HAD to have. I wasn't allowed to eat anything after midnight (mental note #1 – if I have another c-section, first a.m. case was the WAY to go. Nothing to eat after midnight > nothing to eat for an entire day) so I was feeling a little queasy when we got to the hospital. I pretty much had morning sickness every single day of this pregnancy. Anyway, I think the very first thing I did was ask for Zofran in my IV. An ultrasound tech came in to make sure, one last time, that baby girl was bum down. Sure enough, she was perched in the same position as she had been “since conception” Dr. Terry joked. Dr. Terry came in shortly after to give me a pep-talk, ask one last time in his jolly green giant voice, “what questions do you have for me?” with an enormous grin. I told him in complete seriousness that I was terrified I would be able to feel him cutting into me. He assured me that he and the anesthesiologist would do several tests just to be completely sure the spinal block worked. Then Dr. Myers, the best anesthesiologist on the planet, came in and talked me through what the spinal block would be like. Once again, I told him – just like I had told Dr. Terry – that I didn't believe that the spinal block would work. He was extremely patient and understanding and told me that he'd test me at least three different ways to be absolutely sure I wouldn't feel any pain. They also explained to me that I would feel tugging and pulling and pressure. They said, “you won't get it until you're there, but we'll tell you, ‘here comes the pressure,' and you'll get it.” They were right. No pain, just pressure, tugging and pulling. Weird but cool. But mostly weird.

My nurse that morning was awesome. Her name was Corene (pronounced Cor-een) so every time someone said “Corrine” or “Corene” we both turned our heads because we are both so used to having our names mispronounced. Pretty funny. Anyway, she wheeled me into the OR and Dr. Myers got right down to business with the spinal block. Meanwhile, Dr. Terry introduced me to another doctor, whose name I can't remember, who would be assisting with the surgery. It seemed like at least a dozen other people were in the room too. I didn't really mind; it sure seemed like a lot of people though. Dr. Terry was his funny, happy self and he kept saying “we're going to meet a little Southern Belle today,” and “great day to have a Southern Belle baby.” Dr. Myers applied the spinal block and at first it was very uncomfortable and somewhat painful. Then I felt REALLY awful for a few minutes there. Maybe five minutes. Which sounds like a short time, but it felt like a really LONG time. I felt like I was going to throw up and pass out at the same time. The room was spinning. Dr. Myers explained that this was because my blood pressure was dropping, a LOT. Neil felt bad and kept asking if I was okay over and over until Dr. Myers finally said, “no, she's not okay. She's feeling pretty crappy.” It seemed like forever but finally that dizzy sick feeling went away and my blood pressure went back up. Dr. Myers and Dr. Terry both did their tests to be sure I was numb. First Dr. Myers used a very cold cloth and put it on my arm and asked if I could feel cold, and then put it on my leg and asked if I could feel cold. At first I couldn't tell the difference, but by about the third time, I could feel him placing something on my leg but I couldn't feel it was cold. Then Dr. Terry (apparently) pinched me REALLY hard with this instrument that had “teeth” on it, but I didn't feel it at all. The next thing I knew, Neil started describing them cutting and I was like “no thanks! Just want to know if everything is going good or bad.” Ha ha. I am NOT one for blood and guts. Luckily he stands in an OR every day for work so it was easy for Neil to watch the whole thing. Oh, that's another thing, they asked me when they were prepping if I wanted to watch the surgery. I immediately said “NO THANKS.” Ha. Absolutely ZERO desire to see that!

So anyway, Neil kept reassuring me that everything was going well and suddenly, so quickly (literally within 10 minutes of starting the surgery) I heard the most beautiful loud cries! Dr. Terry said “it's a girl! And she has LOTS of hair!” I have never felt a surge of joy like I did in that moment. One of my only complaints about my c-section, and something I'll ask for differently next time, is that I didn't get to SEE Anabelle for a good 15-20 minutes. They took her over to clean her up, weigh her, and make sure everything was okay. This is when Dr. Myers and I had a “moment.” Tears of joy were streaming down my cheeks and he was wiping them away for me. Neil was across the room observing everything happening with little Belle. Dr. Myers asked at least three times, “can Mom see baby now?” and “hey guys, can you show Mom the baby please?” before they finally brought her over to me. Neil thinks maybe they were training a new nurse that day because the one nurse was explaining every little thing she was doing to the other nurse. Next time, if I do a c-section, I'll ask that the doctor lift the baby up so I can see him/her right away.

Neil had to hold her and bring her to me since the OR is a sterile environment and they were closing me up. I didn't care at all though. It was so incredibly magical to just look at our little angel. I couldn't believe how beautiful and perfect she looked. It was truly the best moment of my life.

As soon as they had everything closed up and we were just about to roll out of the OR, they placed sweet little Anabelle in my arms. I got to hold her as we were wheeled into my recovery room. I was so excited for my mom and dad to come meet her. My birth photographer was right there to shoot photos of those first few minutes of me holding my new baby girl, and I love and cherish those photos more than I can possibly explain. There are so many tender moments that she caught of Neil and me with baby Anabelle. I loved that we could both experience and soak up those memories and not worry about missing anything special or having him catch all the right things on camera. It was one of the best things I did for her birth.

My mom and dad came just a few minutes after we were out of surgery. They loved holding little Anabelle and meeting their first grand baby. We stayed in the recovery room for maybe an hour, and then moved to my room upstairs on the maternity floor. I actually ended up moving rooms one more time since they were doing construction right outside that room. I barely remember that detail though. That whole first day was a blur. 

Another one of the BEST things I did was follow the advice of my nurse Corene, Dr. Terry, and Dr. Myers who all said “DO NOT EAT OR DRINK ANYTHING FOR THE FIRST SIX HOURS AT LEAST.” They all said if I just took ice chips instead, that the spinal block would wear off just fine and I wouldn't throw up. I hate being nauseated so I followed their advice just like they said, even though (just as they warned me) the nurse on the maternity floor wanted me to eat and drink right away. I waited until maybe 2 p.m. before I had just a little bit of jell-o. And then that evening I started drinking fluids and eating a little. I was amazed that I really didn't feel sick at all! They also gave me an anti-nausea patch to wear behind my ear. This is going to sound really funny, but I've had one of those once before when I went on a cruise and I remember it made me SO thirsty. I actually didn't mind this because, as a result, as soon as I started drinking fluids I drank TONS of water. I think this helped a lot with me feeling better. I also was extremely careful to stay on top of my pain meds and ice constantly. All of these things helped me have a pretty easy recovery, all things considered. Dr. Terry said to me several times, “you'll be surprised how quickly you bounce back. You'll be up and walking the next day.” I kind of didn't believe him and thought maybe he was just saying that since he felt bad that my baby was breech and I had to have a c-section. But he was right! I stood up (with help) the same day as my surgery, and I was up walking the day after. I mean, I'm sure it's easier if you DON'T have a c-section, but since I don't know any different, it wasn't bad at all. That night is hard for me to remember too, since I was still kind of in the “blur” phase. 

Dr. Terry came to visit me the next day to make sure I was doing okay. He told us that, just as he had suspected on several ultra sounds before she was born, Anabelle's umbilical cord was wrapped around her neck. I was so glad we didn't do anything to try to manually “flip” her and that we followed his advice. 

I ended up staying in the hospital from Tuesday morning until Friday afternoon, the minimum stay if you're a c-section patient. In retrospect, I wish I had just stayed the extra day. For some reason I felt so rushed to get right home and tough it out myself. Like maybe I'd be so much happier in my own bed? And I felt like a wimp staying in the hospital. But oh man, that first night at home was HARD. I was at the very hardest part of nursing (the cracking, bleeding part – nursing moms you know what I mean), and to top that off, I got mastitis. Yes. Awesome (NOT). How I wished I had stayed in the hospital where nurses could have helped me!

Now I have to add a tribute to Neil here. I didn't know exactly what to expect from him since, truthfully, he hasn't been around tons of babies. I grew up the oldest child, six years older than the next sibling, so I had more than plenty of experience around babies. I babysat my way through junior high and high school, and I was even a nanny for two summers. Neil, on the other hand, was the youngest of six boys. He said he changed a diaper once before we were married, but I never actually “bought” that – ha. But I have to say, he went way above and beyond exceeding my hopes and expectations of loving, caring for, and bonding with our baby. It was almost a little blessing in disguise that I was down from the c-section because he had to pretty much do everything for little Belle. He changed every one of her diapers in the hospital. It was pretty funny, the very first time he changed her, we called the nurse in on my on-call button and he asked her to walk him through it. He wore gloves (ha ha) but, I mean, he does work in a hospital every day where you wear gloves for EVERYTHING you do. I tried not to laugh but to just smile and be grateful he was willing to help out. He loved and cared for that little baby girl, and me, so perfectly. I will forever be grateful for his attentiveness and care during that first week of her life on this earth. He stayed every night in the hospital overnight with us and slept on the pitiful “bed” that they provide the dads. It's pretty much some really crappy hospital cushions from their crappy “couch.” But he soldiered it out and didn't complain at all. He got up with Anabelle and me every time she needed to feed or needed her diaper changed, just to be sure we were okay. I think my love for him grew one million times what it was before we had her because of that hospital stay.

Anabelle was a beautiful little baby from the moment we got to see her. I guess that's another unfair advantage that c-section newborns have. Beautiful round little heads! She was so tiny and cuddly and wonderful at 6 pounds 7 ounces and 19.5 inches long. Poor little thing actually dropped down to just 5 pounds at one point, which I'm very glad no one told me about until we were ready to come home and she had gained enough to be back up to about 6 pounds. 

I loved having bows and headbands to dress little Belle up in while we hung out in the hospital for several days. I loved having my own clothes to dress her in, and super soft, yummy smelling swaddle blankets to wrap her in from home. So many people told me to not bring that stuff because the hospital would have it, but my instinct told me to pack it anyway, just in case. And I was SO glad I did. Surprisingly, lots of people recommended bringing MY own clothes to wear, but I hardly did this. I found the hospital gowns much more convenient for feeding and I didn't care if I got them all dirty from … um, post surgery yuckiness if you know what I mean. 

Oh, another thing I'd try to do differently if I were a first time mom in the hospital is not wait until the LAST day you're there to take the breastfeeding class they offer. I kid you not, I slept through the whole thing. You know those times in college when you were so tired your notes were illegible because you were nodding off while the professor lectured? That's exactly what my notes looked like from that breastfeeding class. I remember NOTHING that the teacher said. Ha. And – word to the wise – breastfeeding sucks (no pun intended). It's horrible at first. And then after about 3 weeks it's not so horrible. And now I love it, and I'd never do it differently.

One more mention about the hospital stay – the food. It wasn't as horrific as I had anticipated. But it certainly wasn't my favorite. I did LOVE that I could get unlimited diet coke, apple juice, whatever I wanted, the whole time I was there. I think the nurses probably grew very tired of seeing my call light on for as many times as I requested my water jug or ice pack get refilled. But oh how grateful was I for those ice pack and water jug refills! The food people were pretty intense about me getting my meals picked out for the following day and I always, always put it off. Ha ha. I'd end up picking stuff on a whim. Luckily Neil, my mom and my sister were all really nice to bring me lots of alternative food so I didn't end up eating the hospital food too many times. 

Anabelle's birth was a dream, completely free of complications, and the best day of my life. Neil agrees that it was the best day of his life, too. We love our little girl so much more than we ever could have possibly imagined loving someone. I am already looking forward to doing this again, someday. Not anytime soon! But, someday. 

Corrine Stokoe

Corrine Stokoe is a blogger, podcaster and content creator behind the brand Mint Arrow. She and her husband Neil live in South Orange County with their 5 kids, she runs her blog and business with 7 team members, where they find the best daily deals and share favorite finds in fashion and beauty. They also run a podcast called Mint Arrow Messages. Mint Arrow has been featured in Forbes, Women's Wear Daily, Business Insider, The Wall Street Journal, AdWeek and Allure. Corrine is passionate about sharing the gospel of Jesus Christ as often as she can and teaching others to use social media for good.

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  1. I also had a positive C section experience. Before the surgery I was sure I wanted to watch it but didn't realize that the anesthesia would make me pretty nauseated. I took my recovery nice and slow which I think really helped. Baby #2 comes in February and we are doing the C section again by choice. Thanks for sharing your experience! Your daughter is too cute!

    1. Ii'm so glad your c-section was a positive experience too! and i'm so excited for you and your second on the way! congrats!!

  2. I am officially baby hungry. Between Henry turning one last week, and looking at all of these newborn pictures, I think I just forced myself to ovulate. Hahaha. I'm so glad you had such a positive c-section experience. Anabelle is beautiful. I can't believe our babies are one!

    1. bahahaha courtney! that comment made me laugh out loud. i can't believe they're already one either! time to get busy 😉

  3. What a beautiful story! I too had to have a c-section with my first, and I was terrified because all you hear are the negative things. My experience was like yours – the opposite of what I was imagining. It was perfect! Thanks for sharing 🙂

    1. i'm so glad you had a good experience too! i really think c-sections are like the best kept secret of c-section moms 🙂

  4. What an extraordinary story, thank you so much for sharing it with the world. The name you picked for your daughter is just gorgeous!!!

  5. 1. You are AMAZING for being so positive. There needs to be more posts like this!! 2. SO worth it to spend money on a good photographer. Those are moments you want to remember forever and you don't want your husband to have to stress about it. Love this girl!!

    1. oh friend, you are so kind. it's not hard to be positive when your experience was completely amazing! and i so agree, there's nothing i treasure more than the pictures of her birth!

    1. thank you mary! i read your blog a little today too. your husband's latest post was so heartfelt and touching. i think about you guys a lot (even though i don't think we've seen each other since HS!). but i just think you are darling and so deserving of happiness. i can't wait to see it all come together for you. i know it will. <3

  6. Fantastic story, thanks so much for sharing! sweet, Sweet, SWEET photos…your happiness is contagious 🙂

    1. thank you so much JL! it makes me happy just thinking back on this day and i can't wait for the next time, whenever that may be!

  7. thanks for sharing!!!<br />I&#39;m due with twins in 11 days &amp; couldn&#39;t have been more scared until I read your beautiful story.<br />this is my third &amp; final c-section.<br />my first was an emergency so I was put to sleep,<br />the second was scheduled ……I had a spinal that diden&#39;t take so I was given a second one,just miserable …..I was sick through the whole thing…….

  8. I just have to say thank you for posting this. I just found out last week that my baby girl is breech. After planning a natural birth from the beginning, it felt like a hard hit and I&#39;ve been pretty sad. It&#39;s hard to hear so many negative things about c-sections and to try to keep your head up through it all. Thank you for encouraging me that the birth can still be beautiful and go better

    1. emily, good luck with your baby&#39;s birth! if she does come via c-section, i hope you have just as easy and wonderful of an experience as i did. i&#39;m sure you will! thanks so much for leaving a comment! xo

  9. Thank you for sharing this. I was one of the women who had a super scary emergency c-section (so fast my husband wasn&#39;t even there) and I spent weeks feeling sad/disappointed about it even though my baby girl was born perfectly fine which made me feel guilty … At any rate I think too often about a future delivery and hoping for a vbac but reading this makes me think a scheduled c-section

    1. oh megan, i&#39;m so sorry for your scary experience! so sorry too that it happened so quickly that your husband wasn&#39;t able to get there. i really am sure that if you did it again it would be SO much better next time 🙂 i am sure whatever way you go (scheduled c-section or VBAC) it will be so so much better the next time around!! 🙂

  10. Thank you so much for sharing this story! I’m scheduled for my c-section tomorrow and have been extremely nervous due to all the negative stories I’ve read over the past few weeks. Can’t wait to finally meet my twins tomorrow! 🙂

  11. I hate that people made you feel bad about your c-section. 30 years ago many women and babies died because the option wasn’t there. As long as the baby is healthy who cares. I think most of us feel bad though because a small part of us feels like we couldn’t do what we are suppose t do as a women. And you are right about emergency vs scheduled csection. I’m about to have #4 and I believe after being in labor for so LNG and your body prepping for vaginal birth it’s swollen and adjusted for delivery then you have a csection and It’s a dual recovery. My scheduled surgeries where way better.

  12. I am six months pregnant and even though I’m not planning on having a c-section, I saw your blog post and decided to read it anyway. I love how positive you are and reading about your experience had made me a little less scared about giving birth! And the video is absolutely beautiful!! I cried watching it!

    1. oh, thank you riya! i know it’s a really long entry but i’m so glad i recorded all my feelings when it was fresh. good luck with your pregnancy and congratulations! it will be more wonderful than you could ever possibly imagine the day your baby finally arrives. XOXO

  13. I came across your blog story today and loved every second of it! I found out a few weeks ago that our little girl is breech as well. After an attempt to turn her she is content with where she is at…butt down in my pelvis. I recall bursting into tears when my doctor told me that I will need to have a c-section. It took me about a week to become okay with it and realize that the most important thing is that we have a healthy baby and not how she enters this world! My fears have stemmed mainly from the unknown of a c-section so its great to hear other stories and suggestions. We are super excited to meet our little girl next week! Thank you for sharing your story!

  14. Thank you so much for sharing this positive experience. I just found out, at 37w5d pregnant, that our baby is breech. We had been told by three separate doctors/midwives that he was head down and in the perfect position, so to find out so last minute that he’s breech has been difficult. However, reading about such positive experiences helps so much in the long run. I am also blessed with an amazing husband, and I know he’s going to be fantastic!

  15. I stumbled upon your blog yesterday while searching for baby registry lists, and low and behold I found out today at my 36 week appt that baby is breach. After leaving the office I thought to myself “I think that blog I read yesterday had a c-section story!”, so here I am. Everyone is saying “I’m so sorry” when I tell them the news, and your story is calming my nerves so much! So thank you for making me feel like this will all be okay!

    1. hi lisa – i’m so glad my story helped ease your mind a little! don’t listen to the “i’m sorrys,” most of those come from people who labored for 35 hours and then had an emergency c-section. yours will be way better i’m sure of it! so instead of an “i’m sorry,” i say “congrats!!! and i’m a little jealous!” still have to wait 3 months to see my second babe, and yes she’s coming c-section too 🙂

  16. Thank you so much for sharing your story! I am always so encouraged when I see women who have had a positive c-section. I think there are too few of these stories out there to encourage women who, for whatever reason, find themselves anticipating one.

    I have a site, Birth Memoirs, where I share birth stories of ALL kinds to encourage women. I have been struggling to get c-section stories submitted and wanted to reach out to see if you would be willing to have your story featured on the site? If so, you can check it out at the link above and the submission form is here:

    Either way, thanks for sharing!

  17. Thank you for sharing your story. I’m currently pregnant due July 3rd! My first pregnancy was a c section. My son was breech, he was flipped and I was in Labor for 21 hours that ended with a c section because his heart rate was going up. What has helped you choose the route of birth for your second baby ? I feel very conflicted on a vbac or scheduled c section. Thank you !

    1. hi evelyn, i really just decided i wanted a repeat c-section because my first c-section went so well and was such a positive experience. i’m hoping for another really good outcome this time!

  18. What a beautiful birth story. I am currently 6 months pregnant, so I was a pile of tears watching the video. Thanks for sharing!

  19. I absolutely loved reading this, thank you so much for sharing. I have a breech baby at almost 38 weeks and I have to schedule my c-section soon. I am both so excited to meet our baby girl and very nervous about the surgery. Your post has helped put my mind at ease. I sometimes feel like something is wrong with my body but I keep telling myself that she’s breech for a reason, it’s part of God’s plan and I must go with it 🙂 so thank you again for this great post – and for all your other posts because I’ve been a subscriber for a while now and I love a good deal 🙂

    1. oh, good luck kelsey! i really think you will be surprised how not awful it is 🙂 and thanks so much for reading my blog!! xoxo

  20. I am so happy that I found this blog. I just went to the doctors yesterday and found out my baby is still breech. They scheduled my c-section, just in case. I am not worried about having to have one, because I know it’s what is safest for her. BUT, there were definitely some things that disappointed me. I am disappointed that I won’t be able to hold her right away.. I have already cried about this multiple times and I was glad to see you mention it in your post. I am also afraid that I will never get to experience a vaginal birth because this is my first pregnancy and I know there are risks after a c-section. My sister in-law had a positive c-section experience and so that has been helpful but this blog eased a lot of my worries.

    1. courtney i’m so happy to hear this! a c-section can be scary but it also can be a REALLY positive, beautiful happy experience! both mine were!!! 🙂

  21. I love, love love this post (older I know!! ) But I have been searching for positive c-section stories and this one helped me SO much!! I am scheduled for a c-section in 1 week with my first and your story absolutely eased my fears! I love your page and Insta— you’re a true inspiration!!

    1. Kelli I am so happy to hear this helped you!! Good luck this week, I am sure it will be so great! I’m a little jealous!! 🙂

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