Ultimate guide to flying with a baby and littles!

November 15, 2018

It's that time of year again. The one where I feel like we're always on the go and off visiting family, which is SO FUN, but let's face it, traveling with tinies can be tricky! I've put together some things that have been super duper helpful for us when flying with our littles.

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Get there EARLY: my rule of thumb is at LEAST an hour and a half early, but if it's a bigger airport where I might have to get through a very long security line, I will sometimes give myself two hours. If you have TSA precheck and that's printed on your ticket, your kids can go through the precheck line with you! You can find out here where the closest location is to apply for precheck, and once you're approved it lasts FIVE years. It will cost you $85 but with how much we travel, best $85 I've ever spent! I'm also a huge huge fan of CLEAR – which is another way to speed through security at many major airports now. If you have a travel credit card, check to see if they include a membership to either because many do!

Car seats, strollers, checking, oh my! This for sure was one of my BIGGEST fears when I started traveling alone with a baby (or even with Neil!). How do you bring a baby on board a plane and get there with the stroller and car seat and ALL THE THINGS. Here are my tips after thousands of miles flown with a newborn:

If I have a newborn who will still sleep in their car seat, I take the stroller with car seat attachment all the way to the gate!  At TSA, if it's small enough, they'll ask me to send it through the scanner. If not, they'll “scan” it by hand and also want to test my hands too. It's usually not a big deal and goes fairly fast!

I always get asked what my favorite travel stroller is, and I absolutely LOVE the City Tour Lux stroller, or the less expensive little sister version, the City Tour stroller. We've traveled with and LOVE both. The Lux is nice if you are still traveling with an infant who rides in their car seat because you can use car seat clips! If you have a bigger family and need a couple seats and a big undercarraige, I highly recommend either the City Select or UppaBaby Vista (read more about why I love these strollers and the differences in my best baby registry list ever).

If I have a baby or toddler over 1 year old, I check their car seat with the other checked luggage at the ticketing counter when we check-in. You don't have to, but if you want to keep their car seat a little cleaner and protected, we like packing them in these protective covers.  Checking a car seat is ALWAYS FREE (they'll never penalize you for flying with a car seat!) and the only time I don't do this is when we fly to UT because my parents have car seats at their house that they bring when they pick us up, or if I'm flying to a city where they have Uber Family or Lyft Family (NYC or Ft. Lauderdale FL are two we've been to so far). Once Anabelle was old enough to use a booster we started using this $30 bubble seat that packs flat but you can inflate in like 10 seconds and it has been AMAZING and so convenient!

Baby wearing is a MUST when traveling with a baby. 100% essential in my book! We love the Ergo and the Solly baby wrap, but love the Solly just a little bit more for traveling. Why? Because it squishes down super compact and you can throw it into a diaper bag way easier than you can the Ergo. And compactness is EVERYTHING when you're traveling with kids.

Comfort is king. We try to dress super comfy for airplane travel (or any travel, for that matter!) because when you're trying to get a toddler to hurry up in a tiny airport bathroom, while baby wearing, there's nothing worse than buttons and zippers that cause tantrums and tears!! Plus if you have to sit for a long time you also don't want anyone crying about being uncomfortable in their clothes.

Pack an accessible extra outfit. For sure for your baby, possibly for your kids, and sometimes even for you! If you're nervous about a blowout or an accident on the plane or on a layover you absolutely want to be prepared.

Use a backpack bag: speaking of packing, I always try to make sure I have a backpack diaper bag (or even just a backpack!) that way I have both my hands free for getting baby or kids onto the plane, in their seats, across a terminal, etc. I love Fawn Design bags because they're so easy to clean if you have a spill, and they're beautiful!

Feed the baby on takeoff and landing. This has always worked best for me, because it helps relieve the pressure in their ears. But if you have a super hungry baby don't worry about trying to save your milk or a bottle for those specific times! Using a binky during takeoff and landing has worked for us too-Millie loves these ones!

Bring water if you want. If you have a baby under 1 year, you can bring liquids like a water bottle or liquid formula or breastmilk! You can also bring a pump as a carry-on and it will not count against you as 1 of your carry-on bags 🙂

Planes = white noise heaven. Babies tend to love white noise and my babies have always slept pretty well on airplanes. Typically I'll just swaddle them really tight, give them a binky and let them snooze it out. WARNING if you're trying to have your baby sleep in a wrap: some airlines are super strict about forcing you to take the baby OUT of the wrap for takeoff and landing, which is THE dumbest rule ever in my opinion. Sometimes they're really cool about it and sometimes they're super strict, so just know that might happen to you. For this reason, I usually swaddle after feeding if I want my baby to sleep vs. wrapping them so you don't have to wake them up for a landing!

Activities for the littles. We don't give our kids iPads at home (don't worry they watch plenty of TV, so I am in no way perfect with screen time!), but iPads are a special travel treat for the girls! They're always super excited to play educational games or watch their own personal movie. For longer flights I try to visit the Target Dollar Spot or the dollar store and snag a bunch of little treats and activities. Just fun little things for them to play with or open up as we go. We stick to a very strict one thing at a time rule when we travel. So if they want to do the iPad they only do that until they're bored and then the can exchange it for one new thing.

Avoid too much sugar. We've made the (BIG) mistake in the past of giving them too many fruit snacks and sugary stuff and they were bouncing off the walls! We try to limit the sugar and stick with things like crackers, popcorn or string cheese.

Book a window seat. If I'm flying by myself with a baby, I try to book a window seat so I can kind of turn toward the window to nurse, or to shush the baby if she cries, or to just tune out the rest of the world around me that might be bugged if she's crying. I also don't have to worry about people climbing over me to go to the bathroom if my baby is sleeping in a window seat!

Ignore the haters. Of course you're going to do everything you can to keep your kids from crying or shouting or kicking the person's seat in front of them, but they're babies and little kids after all! I always try to go in with very low expectations. Don't stress too much if fellow passengers giving you dirty looks, because there's literally nothing you can do on an airplane beyond your best!

Here are some of our favorite things for kid and baby travel:

Snug SNPLAYPK Play+ Kids Headphones
iPad Case for Kids – Shock Proof Bumper
Unicorn Toddler Kids Backpack
Butterfly Toddler Kids Backpack
City Tour stroller or City Tour Lux stroller
Fawn Design diaper bag
Car Seat Travel Bag
City Select Stroller
Ergobaby 360 All Carry Positions
Solly Baby Wrap
Medium Metro Tote
Pop Pacifier


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Thanks so much for sharing this last post on flying with little ones! I bought the Snug Play+Kids Headphones❤️


Just a warning: we’ve had bad luck with the audio limiting headphones on planes, because they’re often too quiet for our kids to hear above the airplane noise. We like the amazon basics headphones and they work for everyone from 2-yr olds to teens.


Oh good to know! We’ve never had that issue but I can see how older kids might complain 🙂


Yay you’re welcome! So happy it was helpful.


Thanks so much for this! Super helpful 🙂 when you take your baby all the way to the gate in the car seat and stroller, what do you do with the base for the car? Check it?


Corrine says she never takes the base while traveling! 🙂 -Kourtney

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